Mark Hayley
is the one who works with people to make the changes for
individuals and groups of people.
Mark says: “Since 1998 I have worked with
individuals for many different things, including getting rid of
phobias and irrational fears, stopping addictions such as
gambling, drinking too much alcohol, using cocaine (sometimes
those I worked with were drinking alcohol and using cocaine
together), stopping shopping addictions, etc.
Most important is having the change process
be as effective and as easy as possible (you may be surprised,
this is very do-able). Keep in mind that effectiveness more
often than not, includes feeling good.
Think about it for a moment. The things that
you are good at you enjoy doing, do you not? We enjoy stuff, we
think clearer and our mental and physical reflexes are much
sharper. That is a scientifically acknowledged fact.
Also, what we enjoy, we do more of. The more
we of it we do, the better we get at it. Simple.
Now, if it is something such as a phobia of
spiders, you may not want to feel good around spiders. But you
don’t want to feel bad around spiders either…so how about
feeling curious? Or even feeling indifferent?
When we are motivated it is much easier to
change for good. If you need motivation, I can help you with
that to. It is relatively straightforward to manifest powerful
motivation when you know how. Just follow the simple
instructions that I give.
One of the first things that we will do is to
ensure that you have clarity of thought in what you want.
Planning what you want specifically is very important. Most
people have spent a lot of time thinking or reliving what they
don’t want but very little time and effort aiming themselves and
all of their resources at exactly what they do want!
Let’s face it, some times it is necessary to
have an experienced and skilful person to guide you objectively
to where you want or need to go.
I also assist people in enhancing that which
is already good. Such as greater confidence, more passion,
happiness and enthusiasm at work and play. You tell me what is
already good but could be better and I will show you how.
Sports Enhancement
Both amateur and professional sportspeople
invest much effort, energy, emotion and time into their chosen
sport.
With many sportspeople now recognizing how
essential it is, and when taught, how relatively easy it is, to
get into the zone at will and maintain that winning mindset.
There are many sportspeople that I have
worked with - from golfers to boxers - that have vastly improved
their game and their earnings.
Many had invested a lot of time and money
with various coaches and hypnotherapists, with minimal results.
I showed them how easily and quickly they can
be at their best.
Most importantly, I taught them how to do
this independently of any coach or third-party. Easy, when you
know how.
Another welcome side-effect of this, is that
they up their income considerably more than they ever believed
possible! Strengthening existing sponsorships, gaining new
sponsorships and often getting lucrative new contracts come
renewal time.
One of the precious benefits of this way of
doing things is not rewarded financially (at least not
directly). What I speak of is the love that they have regained
for their chosen sport.
After dissipating the pressures that had
seemed unchangeable for so long, passion and renewed enthusiasm
follows.
Importantly, I teach them and all people that
I work with, how to feel good for no reason, so that when they
have a reason, they feel even better.”
To find out more and to have a customised
plan constructed for you personally, contact Mark Hayley
here
Frequently
Asked Questions
Q. “What Is NLP?”
A.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is the study of the structure
of subjective experience and what can be calculated from that.
How I define
NLP is the closest thing we have to a user’s guide to the brain,
with the brain being an organic super-computer.
The software
that we run the brain with is made up of sensory data from the
five senses, comprised of pictures, sounds, feelings/tactile
sensations, smells and taste sensations. From this raw sensory
experience we process and build our representation of the world.
For example -
why do some people enjoy some activities/experiences and some
people dislike those same activities? Think about this…it isn’t
the activity/experience that decides how we think/feel otherwise
there wouldn’t be any opinions, everybody would agree…it is how
we internally filter the external experience using the universal
modelling processes (e.g. beliefs, generalisations, etc.) that
is how we decide what to decide.
Eh? I may well
hear you say.
Well, what’s
probably primarily relevant if you are reading this, is that
like all processes, there is a glitch every so often, where we
don’t get the result that we want or need, and that is where I
come in to help.
I find out what
you want to happen and show you how to utilize the system and
get the results that you want, automatically (and with a good
feeling), the way our minds are generally designed to operate.
Q. "What results can I expect from
learning
and using NLP?"
A.. To me, NLP is about improving quality of
life for all. Learning to have more freedom of choice in what we
do and how we live, more fun overall and better communication
with ourselves as well as others.
Using NLP methods and techniques gives us
greater awareness of what we do to create our perceived reality
and a more conscious approach to facilitating change.
What I am offering you are the latest
cutting-edge techniques that step-by-step will allow you to make
changes for the better.
It is not rocket science, the basics are
particularly easy to learn and very effective. However,
theorising will not make the changes, NLP is to be experienced.
Q. "What do the techniques of NLP help
with?"
A . The techniques of NLP help with anything and everything.
Remember that NLP is, simply put, learning how to learn.
So the full spectrum of learning or
re-learning is possible.
From taking stuff away with remedial changes,
such as getting rid of fears, phobias, unwanted behaviours and
compulsions, to changing unwanted emotional responses such as
blushing to eliminating panic attacks.
Then there is adding the good stuff, the
generative changes, like the accelerated learning of desired new
behaviours, making good decisions, creativity, skills
acquisition, feeling good for no reason (it’s your birthright!)
plus greater communication with yourself and others, deep
relaxation, the list goes on and on.
You want to enhance it, it can be done!
Q. "If I come to you to change something,
do I have to re-live unpleasant experiences or talk about stuff
that is personal and private?"
A . NLP is not therapy in the common sense,
although people often report therapeutical benefits.
NLP is an educational process. You will be
taught how to run your brain better. We are more interested in
how you are thinking, rather than what you are thinking.
Some sharing of the experience that is to be
changed is obviously needed. However, detail and anything
private regarding the experience is encouraged to be kept
private.
I will work with you on useful ways of
changing the structure of experience which in turn changes the
meaning of the experience - working with process over content.
Q. "How long does it take to make a
change?
For example, changing a phobic reaction?"
This is not quite the ‘how long is a piece of
string’ question that people may think. I have worked with many
people to get rid of phobias and together we have had great
results quickly, ranging from only a few minutes to a few hours,
if there are additional changes to make.
Even if the phobia change is only a few
minutes, the session itself would usually be approximately an
hour and a half in total, as there are some other changes that I
have found it useful to make.
I ask questions to gather information, give a
few very straight forward, simple and easy instructions to
follow.
.
Other times, with changing more generalised
feelings or more pervasive behaviours, for example, depression,
it maybe worthwhile to take up to three sessions lasting maybe
an hour and a half each.
Most importantly, it is a drug-free,
educational process and is very easy and straightforward with
wonderful permanent and liberating results!
Q. "What if NLP or hypnosis doesn’t work
for me or it hasn’t worked for me in the past?"
A . Every practitioner or trainer of NLP will have a different
level of skill, attitude and experience. If an NLP or hypnotic
technique didn’t work for you in the past it doesn’t mean it
isn’t possible to get the change that you want using NLP.
Perhaps the NLP techniques used weren’t
suited to you or the change that you require.
Perhaps something was missed in the original
plan that was constructed for you.
Perhaps that person at that time didn’t know
to make that one adjustment that would have made all the
difference for you.
Remember, if you want to change a response or
behaviour and you are finding it difficult, you have already
proved that you are someone who has learned something
long-lasting!
Keep the learning ability and tenacity and
just learn to run a better program of your choice. Contact me.
Q. "This is all well and good for others
but I don’t believe it will work for me"
Well, most people believe that or something similar at first.
For example, we are born with only two fears.
The fear of falling and the fear of loud noises. All the other
fears that a person may have are learned.
What you have learned you can unlearn.
If you have learned to do something
unpleasant then you can learn to replace it with something of
your choice.
Q. "If it does work for me then it won’t
last"
A . I have heard this prediction often. We are learning
machines. You remembered how to maintain the problem, so you can
remember the solution. I will teach you how.
Again thanks to Mark for
sharing some of his knowledge and experience with us.
To make the first step in arranging a
personal one-to-one session with Mark Hayley
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rather than later, as Mark has a busy schedule and travels
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