It is Mark Hayley
that will be instigating change for people that want life to be
better…and most importantly, take the steps necessary to
make that change. Very worthwhile because the process is pleasant
and fast…with the benefits lasting for the rest of your
life…
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F.A.Q.
Thanks to Mark Hayley,
Licensed Master Trainer of NLP & Apprentice to Dr. Richard
Bandler co-Creator of NLP™ and Creator of DHE™ and
NHR™, because Mark has agreed to answer from his experience
these Frequently Asked Questions…
At the intro workshop,
what will we be learning in those three hours?
I will be sharing with you the way of thinking that NLP™ practitioners
have and demonstrating some easily learned and yet very effective
techniques, for bringing about pervasive change in yourself and
others very quickly.
Will using NLP™
make my life perfect? Er…probably not. To me, NLP™
is about improving on the quality of living both for yourself
and for others. Learning so that you have more freedom of choice,
more fun and better communication as well as really enjoying the
process. Make life better by learning a more conscious approach
to facilitating change. What I am offering you are some of the
latest cutting edge techniques that step-by-step will allow you
to make changes for the better. It is not rocket science, the
basics are particularly easy to learn and very effective.
What do the techniques
of NLP™ help with?
Changing unwanted emotional responses, eliminating phobias, compulsions,
panic attacks. Also changing unwanted behaviours, learning desired
new behaviours, accelerated learning, taking control over your
emotional reactions, achieving goals, better quality of life,
feeling good for no reason and most of all really improving communicating
with others, loved ones, employers, employees, strangers and most
importantly, yourself.
If I come to you
to change something do I have to re-live unpleasant experiences
or talk about stuff that is personal and private?
No. Primarily this is educational and fun – this is not
therapy in the common sense, however, people often report therapeutical
benefits. This is about changing the process by which we think.
Content can and is encouraged to be kept private. The major difference
being that I will be sharing tools with you to teach you how to
run your brain more effectively. This rarely, if ever, involves
going back into personal history, except for happy, positive experiences.
I will work with you on useful ways of changing the structure
of experience and changing the meaning of the experience - working
with process over content. New behaviours can also be learned
easily and methodically in a way that is far easier than psychologists
believe.
How long does it
take to make a change? For example, changing a phobic reaction?
This is not quite the ‘how long is a piece of string’
question that people may think. I have worked with many people
and together we have had great results. I ask questions to gather
information, give a few very straight forward, simple and easy
instructions to follow so that generally it only takes a few minutes
to eliminate what was previously a debilitating phobia! Other
times, with changing obsessive compulsive behaviour for example,
it may take up to three sessions lasting maybe an hour and a half
each. Most importantly, it is a drug-free educational process
and is very easy and straightforward with lasting liberating results.
I am an unhappy/depressed
person so can learning NLP™ help me?
The trainings are for learning NLP™. I recommend a personal one-to-one
client session with me to facilitate change for you. Going to
a practitioner with the intention of learning NLP™ to make a life-altering
change on yourself would be something best done when you are well-practised
at making successful changes with others first.
What will the NLP™
Practitioner be like?
We will have lots of fun opening up the realms of possibility
on a journey of learning and self-discovery. This is a process
which a lot of people realize they had been aware of happening
throughout the course of their life, only they are so much more
consciously aware of and equipped to utilize both during and after
the NLP™ Practitioner. You will get instruction and lots of practise
using NLP™ techniques. Experience over theory is the watch word
of this training as this is a very practical set of tools.
Join in as much or as little
as you like. Remember that doing is far more beneficial than thinking
about. Some of this knowledge is available in books – just
remember that what I am offering is far more valuable –
which is experience. By all means, read the NLP™ books, listen
to the NLP™ CD’s and watch DVD’s/videos available from
this site before attending the training. Then be better prepared
for this experiential workshop.
This workshop is structured
primarily for beginners and people with a little experience of
using NLP™. However the door is also open to Practitioners and
above who want to practise and get a new angle on NLP™. However,
I will also add more covert and unique twists to the techniques
and patterns for the more experienced NLP™ enthusiasts that attend.
What if NLP™ or
hypnosis doesn’t work for me or it hasn’t worked for
me in the past?
Then do something different is what I say. If an NLP™ or hypnotic
technique didn’t work for you in the past with a specific
person at a particular time in a particular place that doesn’t
mean it isn’t possible to get the change that you want.
Perhaps that particular technique wasn’t the best technique
for you. Perhaps that person at that time didn’t know to
make that one adjustment that would have made all the difference
for you. Remember, if you want to change a response or behaviour
and you are finding it difficult, you have already proved that
you are someone who has learned something long-lasting! I think
of a problem as only having learned to run a program. Keep the
learning ability and tenacity and just learn to run a better program
of your choice.
Often some people
said that this is all well and good for others but I don’t
believe it will work for me...
Well, most people believe that or something similar at first.
If you have learned to do something unpleasant then you can learn
to do something pleasant that is useful for you.
Yeah well if it
does work for me then it won’t last…
Yeah right. The bad stuff doesn’t get left behind…right
Again
thanks to Mark for sharing some of his knowledge and experience
with us.
More questions
or a booking that you want to make? Then feel free to email us
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